You know those moments that seem frozen in time?

He rang while I was at the park.  At the time, I was wondering if one of the kids would break an arm on the spinning thing they were on.  As soon as I heard his voice, I started to cry. I’m not usually a crier, but when he said, “It’s so good to hear your voice,” I buckled, because his voice is just what I needed to hear right then.  He’s away working interstate this week, and it’s school holidays, and all that.

My daughter came over to my sitting spot, and placed a soft hand on my shoulder.

“You okay Mum? Is that Dad on the phone?”

“I’m fine honey, I just miss Dad.”

“Me too.”

“Want to say hi?”

I went back the phone; there was no need for an apology for the interruption; we are both are used to staggered conversations. Family.

I said, “Pip is here, I’m putting you on speaker.”

“Hi Dad. I miss you.”

“I miss you too beautiful,” he said.

My daughter was sitting in my lap now and I snuggled her between my shoulders as I held the phone in front of us.

“Hey Pip,” Matt continued, “Guess what I saw? After work, I went down to the beach, and I saw these beautiful birds.  They were sort of like fantails; a bit like a willy-wag tail size. It had blue splashes on its head, and brownish sort of feathers.”

“Hey Dad! Do you want me to look it up?” She ran off, without waiting for the answer. She often has her bird book near by when we are out and about in nature.

I can’t remember what Matt and I talked about while she was gone, but it was nice.

Pip had a sparkle in her eye when she sat next to me, book in hand.  I was surprised to see her flick immediately to the fantail page, and then over the the finch page.  She knows this book so well! I thought.  As Matt described the bird again, we hunted through the book, took pictures and messaged them. Back and forth.

Nope. Close. Yes!

sms birds

After much conversation, we decided the bird he saw was a surberb fairywren.

surperb fairywren

Pip stayed with me as Matt and I chatted.  Placing her hand softly on my shoulder, just like when she first came to me, she said, “I’ll go back and play now Mum.”

“Okay love.” I whispered as I gave her a soft smile.

And why am I sharing this story? I don’t know. It was just one of those special moments, those moments that confirmed the value of family, sharing life together, love.  You know those moments that seem to freeze in time somehow? Because they are real, uncontrived and true.

There are a lot of pressures on family life, and distractions. Busyness! Busyness!  Far out, it’s full on sometimes! A lot of the time. And when all that is stripped away, you get these moments, when it feels so right.  So true. Like all the good times, all the fun times, all the investment in family life, they triumph through, despite the chaos!  They count: all the good things.  They do. And I dare say, they have more power than the negative.  I’ll store this moment in a treasure box in my heart, and I’ll draw on it again, deliberately, when I need a warm smile.

I’ll end this post with a few sketches I found around the house by my daughter. Maybe it’s because these small, sweet creatures are everywhere, that they have become so important in our family life.  Next time I see a bird in the sky, I’ll thank God for such beauty.

birds drawing

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    October 4, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    This is so sweet. And so powerful for you. I had an amazing family moment 2 yrs ago which still gives me warm fuzzies and makes me realize it truly is the small things that matter.
    My daughter had woken, as all newborns do, at 5.30am. My husband works in Africa and I was tired. Mid feed my eldest soon crept out his room and quietly sat stroking her foot. Then middle son was beside me, snuggling into my arm. Usually I would scold them – go back to bed. Instead we all sat there quietly watching the dawn arrive. It was magical.

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      Kelly Be A Fun Mum
      October 14, 2012 at 7:42 pm

      Sarah, I’ve been meaning to write back to say thank you for sharing such a wonderful story. Powerful, and I may have shed a tear. x

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    A Write Relief... (for PND)
    October 4, 2012 at 2:08 pm

    What a gorgeous post… Thank you so much for this today. Lovely moments shared, moments to be treasured. And I like the comment from Sarah above also. We are at times so quick to scold we often miss what might be otherwise the most special moments of all (I know I am often guilty of this). Thanks so much again. You have absolutely brightened my day. x

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      Kelly Be A Fun Mum
      October 14, 2012 at 7:43 pm

      This really spoke to me: “We are at times so quick to scold we often miss what might be otherwise the most special moments of all.”

      Thank you. x

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    Danielle Colley
    October 4, 2012 at 6:41 pm

    Birds are celestial creatures…..closely related to angels in book.
    This is a beautiful slice of your life.


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    Nathalie Brown
    October 5, 2012 at 11:05 am

    Love moments like this – I had one with a leaf and my son, stopped me in my rush and it was perfect Nx

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      Kelly Be A Fun Mum
      October 14, 2012 at 7:45 pm

      Kids help us so much, don’t they Nat, to see what’s really important. x

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    October 5, 2012 at 7:10 pm

    It sounds like you have a beautiful family Kelly…the simple moments are the best. Xlisa

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